July 5, 2013

Making my day and so much more...

My friend Paula is doing a July Blog Challenge. If you click on the link below the banner that says Paula's Place it will take you to her blog if you'd like to join. If you click here it will take you to the list of daily topics for the month also at her blog..




TODAY’S TOPIC

Post a picture of something or someone that made your day special.

Independence Day  is a rough holiday for me . On the third of July seven years ago our daughter Gretchen 30 and our son Eric 23 were killed in a horrible accident here on the highways of Virginia. 

As I reflect on my loss I cannot do so without also reflecting on the many blessings of our family, friends and a faith that continue to lift me up and give me strength. 

This part of the challenge was a no brainer for me. He not only makes my day but he is my rock.

My husband Bill...


Bill standing in our tomato garden. 


17 comments:

  1. I'm so sorry for your loss, and glad you have your faith to lift you up. Wonderful picture of your hubby there in the garden!

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    1. Thanks Sandy, Faith plays a huge part in coping with such a loss. I can't help but think that certain people were placed into my life to support me and were put there by God especially for that purpose.

      Oh! an Bill, notice he's posing and not picking weeds huh!

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  2. I cannot imagine what the Fourth of July means to you. My thoughts are with you during this time! Where would we be in this world without out faith? Hugs for you today my friend

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    1. While everyone celebrates we mourn Paula, not overtly anymore but in our own way.
      I would imagine without our faith we'd be lost and lost is ok sometimes but HE should always be the destination.

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  3. You continue to amaze and bless me with your courage and strength.

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  4. Everyone needs a ROCK, some more than others. You are very fortunate to have yours!

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  5. Such an example that you can focus on your blessings during the hard times when the terrible memories come. I'm glad you can count on Bill! May the days get easier . . .

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  6. Jen, I'm so sorry for your loss.

    My first thought on the photo of your husband was how he would make a good scarecrow if he were wearing tan instead of white. :-)

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    1. Thanks Flora we've come a long way in the past seven years and have learned that despite everything life goes on!
      Would you believe my husband has a crow that is his friend? So that comment is hysterical. I'm gonna post the picture of the two of them on the back porch sitting together!

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  7. Roots grow strong & deep into the soil.

    I'm so sorry this such a hard time of year for you...

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  8. You are a strong woman, Jen. Looks like you've got a great rock to help you through the tough times. Great pic!

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  9. Hugs my friend. I am glad that you are able to reflect on blessings. Sometimes that all that gets us through the days. I am glad your husband is your rock, and he looks like an amazing rock.

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  10. I love that photo with his arms out protecting you. Another anniversary comes round Jen but then I bet you have anniversaries all the time and it's so good you have your faith to keep you strong becasue that's really all you can do,keep strong. Sending love and hugs and good thoughts across the ocean to your door my friend, x

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  11. You are my hero. I gripe about the stupidest things. Then I remember you and what you have lost. God bless you and Bill.

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